frejya99 asked:

the reason a lot of people consider bisexuality to be transphobic is because a lot of the time people assume bisexuality means attraction to only cis women and cis men. pansexual is a sexuality that pretty much means attraction to people regardless of gender or sexuality. that's why a lot of people think bisexuality is transphobic. you can still love any gender if you're bisexual. bisexual and pansexual are very similar and i myself am still trying to figure out which one i am.

(For people confused, someone said bisexuals were transphobic, and I didn’t understand why someone would think that.) Alright, thank you for explaining it to me. But… honestly???? Assuming that all bisexual or pansexual people only date cis people is really moronic. Like??? Why are you assuming something about someone because of their sexuality??? Is there any reason for you to assume that??? Not all bisexuals or pansexuals are transphobic. If they are in a straight relationship, that does not make them straight. Bisexuals and Pansexuals are valid, and they belong in the lgbt community. 

One thing I especially don’t understand is how a lot of people in the lgbt community are biphobic. Wtf???? We of all people should understand how it feels to be discriminated against because of our sexual orientations/ gender identities, so…. why are they oppressing bisexuals and pansexuals???? There is literally no reason to. I hate it when people assume things about me because  I’m a lesbian, so why would I ever assume something so stupid about a bi or pan person???

Idk. I’m sorry for rambling on so long, I’m not even sure if this is gonna make any sense, lol. But if you think bisexuals or pansexuals are “gross” or “Transphobic” or “Straight”, you can get the hell off my blog, ha

Thank you so much for answering my question, good luck in figuring out your sexuality!!